Get down on your hands and knees and crawl to me and ask me for my signature. you can then beg for permission to stand up and then you can drop your pants to your ankles i will sign your ass in black sharpie & then you can go get it tattooed, permanently.
Monday, June 7, 2010
Thursday, June 3, 2010
Now that you've settled into LA what do you think? I have found that everyone talks about how creative they are, you know, " I'm so creative I have an art gallery", blah, they make me puke, but really, they are all just followers not many with real genius
I don't go out much....so I have not met many new people here. Uhmmm I don't know LA is a strange place. I have friends here who I like who are not full of shit so that is a good thing.
This town can be all about networking and bullshit though it can be annoying when every time you go somewhere someone says, "do you have a business card" HAHA Why yes I do..... Or "what do you do ?" You cannot really make a blanket statement about "everyone" in LA. People here seem to be here to "WORK" so that's it right...they are trying to BE SOMEBODY or make IT.
I don't know....I like going to a few select places and I have yet to explore much outside of the studio since I have been working day and night to get the business organized and up n running. I have a lot of projects.
Yes, I am for real....Why would I live or devote my life to a philosophy or a career for well over 13 years if I was not for real ? I would say I am more real than most women are...Most people know I am the "real deal"
I guess I would have my birthmark removed if it would leave no scar and I have one ear that sticks out a bit. Really though realistically I would probably not alter or change anything. I do not believe in going under the knife unless it is to save my life.
I am reading many books at once but I have been super busy lately so no real down time right now. I have been reading through or reviewing some books on SM because I want to put together a curriculum for workshops. I have been reading DeSade Justine Philosophy & Other Writings in addition to some other books on post modernist theory.
i got arrested in my twenties for driving without registration and insurance. I was broke ass...it was the third time I was ticketed for this and so they took me downtown to the jail house. I was in a holding cell overnight the night before Christmas Eve Day. 24 hours...of cops singing Christmas carols ugh, a cracked out homeless woman, a few prostitutes and a black girl who told me she stabbed her BF but was cool to me because I had tattoos.
A good friend posted bail for me. ;-) I will say this I would not want to spend any real time in jail...it was interesting though spending the night. *laughing* I have had a few other run ins with "the law" but never served time.
I have a clean record.
Hi, who trained you? Dominants say tha behind each dominant woman lies a dominant man.. is that true?
I was not formally trained by any one person. I had a boyfriend who was into kink and he taught me how to top him. He was into some heavy duty SM.
When I first started at The Shadows, a house of BDSM in Oakland, I worked with many MIstresses of the house who trained me. The Master of the house really taught me a lot and opened me up to this world in so many ways. I would say in my case the dominant men were most influential but the MIstresses I worked with were also incredible. I would not say that behind each and every dominant woman lies a dominant man however. I have also taken many workshops, read many books and watched other people play. I have learned from many many people and I would say I have learned a lot from personal experience in sessions as well. I feel I developed my own personal style of play and really it is amazing to feel so empowered in the play and having the knowledge and the skill level really contributes to my creativity. I have a wicked devious mind, I have a real passion for SM. I feel somehow I was meant to become a Dominatrix. I have had many mentors and teachers.
When you are just hanging around at home loafing what do you typically wear? PJ's, a corset, a strap on, or nothing at all?
t-shirt n leggings, jeans and a t-shirt, topless in panties or nothing at all
When you and your other Domme friends get to together for a sleep over do you typically strip down to your bra and panties and have a tickle fight? And then maybe go out and shop for pretty ribbons and bows?? Be honest!
haha no I can't say this has ever happened...lol
I am always amazed that Dommes know so much about inflicting pain. Have you ever studied anatomy? How do you know how to build a crescendo of pain?
I have studies some anatomy yes...mostly male anatomy. Building a crescendo of pain is about tuning in to my submissive mostly. Building up to it and knowing that when I get a sub into head space they can take more from me or for me.
Do you get into SPH? I have some pics posted at http://www.showyourdick.org/member.php?w=78294 if you'd like to see.
*laughing* yes, i like small penis humiliation...wow...pathetic
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
yes, of course i like sex...
the connection was really amazing; i thought
mostly male, i have had a few female clients though.
yes..i have and i actually save the stockings as i plan to set up auctions soon so slaves can purchase my personal items. ripped or worn by me.
So your party is for couples only, are you going to auction yourself to the highest bidder so He/She can be your slave at the party?
Now there's an idea...*smiles*
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
hahahahaha yes, that is true...27" *smiles* whoa man
I see you are planning a play party, is it for couples only or single slaves will be able to get your attention and to play as well? my fantasy is to wear womens cloth and to be pimped out, can it be done in such a party?
I am hosting and plan to host many more play parties, yes. This party is for couples only. Which means you can come with a date or your Mistress if you have one, Master & Slaves Mistresses and Slaves. Boyfriend Girlfriend Husband Wife , If you are gay, lesbian trans gender is all fine with me but no single person will be admitted. You must be open minded, follow protocol and above all be into BDSM. safe, sane and consensual play.
I would like to host MIstress/Slave parties also in the future. In regards to what you are asking this kind of party would be more suitable to your request.
For people who want to attend these very exclusive parties you absolutely MUST BE ON MY PRIVATE MAILING LIST. or you will not get the invitations and you will miss out on the sexy fun.
So once again email me a request to email@example.com
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Hey I have not asked you in a while, when you comin to Chicago? I must see you then, this will clear away my blues.
I can't leave right now...I am busy with projects here I will make announcements when I decide to make the trip. Cheer up...
Have you ever surprised some random formspring follower with a phone call to cheer them up? Just askin, I mean it would sure cheer me up.
No...it's anonymous so I have no idea who you are. So i suppose you would hafta be the one to pick up the phone.
Today I'm sad, a session with you would surely pick me up...what do you do when you are feeling blue?
awwww...that is so sweet....
When I am feeling blue I play my guitar and or try and write a song or do something artistic or call a friend.
How would you rate electroplay as a form of torture? Does it dimish your role since the device is doing the work or is it great fun to watch a slave squirm in this way?
Electro-play by no means takes away from my dominance. I have a lot of control by utilizing electrics. Jump and SQUIRM yes, delightful.
Dear Misses Kross, Have you had a chance to read my question from yesterday regarding letting my GF peg me? What do you think I should do? ~Still wondering in TX~
I read your question and deleted it for a specific reason. send a private email and I will answer your question.
I have done tickling sessions and have enjoyed them in the past. I am very specific about how this is done is all and I am not sure I would do it 4 video unless I produce it.
Who is flying me to Switzerland and covering all my expenses ? And do you speak Swiss German ?
Though it does mean a little out of the ordinary for you, would you ever consider doing foot tickling videos where you were the one having your feet tickled? there seem to be a lot of producers in LA.
I am not so much into being tickled, no, no not so much.
Do you enjoy force feeding a sub his own cum to drink, esp during CBT sessions, or is that not something you are into?
OH, I AM REALLY INTO THIS
Someone tracing the bottom of your feet with a paintbrush - "More, Please!" or "Please! No more!"? Do explain ;)
Actually, I have had this done before...I kinda liked it. It is a nice subtle sensation at first. I don't think I would care for it for very long a time though then it would be annoying.
Monday, May 24, 2010
I would say yes but I am more an empath. I have to really discipline myself in meditations to tap into clairvoyance. I do not feel I am as clairvoyant as I could be empathic, yes. I can tap into the emotions of a person and read that way. I would not say I am a tell your future kind of psychic. I can read into some stuff but it is more feelings I get or a picture or vision. I trust my empathic feelings so this is really helpful when it comes to sessions actually in reading the energy. I can feel things and I have many premonitional dreams that seem like Déjà vu but they are not Deja vu past life experiences. I have done past life regression and that is very interesting.
I eat whatever I want...I have not been eating as much red meat lately now I am eating more fish. I am not a vegetarian not now I have been. I seem to always go back to eating meat. I need a lot of protein to keep my energy up. Last year I had slowly cut back on all meat and cooked food and got into a raw food diet but then I started to travel quite a bit. It is difficult to maintain a raw food I think and I like all kinds of food. I want to be healthy. I naturally crave fresh food. I snack quite a bit and don't eat many heavy meals. My favorite cut of meat is a fillet minion...steak. It's been a hwile since I have had a steak. I ate a burger a few weeks ago and I had not had red meat in a while, it made feel a bit light headed. salad is great. I like Thai food and Japanese food. Chicken and fish usually. I do not eat a lot of carbs.
I have smoked cigarettes and have attempted to quit several times and am still struggling with it. I don't smoke crack no haha yuck. I do smoke weed but not as much as I used to actually I am hardly smoking weed at all these days a little here and there.
Hey I was wondering if I could set up a session...ok just kidding, do you ever get nervous before a session, especially with a new client? If what behaviors from the new client cause this nervous response?
*smiles* Actually, yes with a new client I can get a bit nervous just because I really don't know what to expect and it is hard to know what will transpire. Sometimes it is difficult because I feel I have to live up to a certain kind of expectation. Once, I meet and talk with the new client I feel more at ease. My confidence is there it is just that not knowing feeling and the hope for a real connection in the session. Once the session is going it is usually fine and more often than not it is a good experience. I don't like feeling like my client is a kind of "secret shopper" You know what I mean ? There are clients that write reviews and critique the Mistresses for certain forums and this fine it's just I am not interested in passing a test to see if I make the grade as a Mistress. Nervous ? Sure sometimes.
So far so good...I had a photo shoot with Aaron Hawks on Saturday and we edited some of the new pics yesterday. I have some meetings today regarding studio rental and I am hoping business will improve especially since the new studio is super nice. I am planning some things behind the scenes so I am busy with the back end of the business. (pun intended) haha
Oh and a side note for the person who is writing me and addressing me with my birth name I will not answer your questions unless you use my chosen name of Simone Kross it is an issue of my personal discretion. My close friends and family only call me by my birth name. Most everyone addresses me as Simone so I request you do as well especially in a public forum.
Dear Mistress Kross, I am in San Francisco from May 28-30 and hope you will allow me to have a session with you on May 30. I am a total slave, tending to the more extreme side... extreme cbt, nipple torture, piss and especially shit feedings
I would prefer people ask me valid questions on formspring.me that pertain to your curiosities not send session requests. However, I am no longer based in San Francisco I am now in Los Angeles. Your interests being on the extreme side all sounds fabulous EXCEPT I DO NOT DO ANY SCAT PLAY OF ANY KIND SO STOP ASKING ME FOR IT.
For more information about sessions, my interests and how to contact me visit my website
Will You ever make another video like the on that got You an AVN nomination? and would the soundtrack be Your own music? :)
There will never be another video quite like Diabolical Cruelty. I don't think I can recreate it and the reason being is because I had such a close and personal connection with my personal slave who was Danny. If I do more video there will probably not be a soundtrack and no I would not use my own music I do not think my sound jives with BDSM action LOL
i could do that...i am hoping to get back into video production here soon.
Thursday, May 20, 2010
I love your shoots done for Kink.com. Are you planning anymore shoots with them? Much love to you Simone Kross! You are wonderful.
Thank you...I really enjoy working with kink.com although I have no shoots scheduled with kink at this time.
And these!!I hope you know CPR, because you take my breath away. Damn, if being sexy was a crime, you'd be guilty as charged! I must be in heaven because I'm standing next to you! If I could rearrange the alphabet, I'd put U and I together. You must be fr
now you're over doing it....bleh
Corny huh, well try and resist these!!! Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again? Why don't you come over here, sit on my lap and we'll talk about the first thing that pops up? Save a horse, ride a cowboy.
Okay that is more creative...creativity counts...
Yes, I believe in love at first site but if ya walk by again I can get a better look atcha. Ooooh a cowboy huh...is that so...
Well of course he must be smart and have good taste to boot if he was meeting with you, so can you provide us with any highlights??
It was pretty strait forward....talked about studio rental 4 VIDEO SHOOTS
Could ya come up with a better line than THAT ? *laughing* CORNY
Oh it was GREAT !!! He's really kinky and smart that guy....
Do you have a preference for circumcised or uncircumcised men when it comes to CBT or other activities?
No, I do not really have a preference either way the CBT is good fun. I like BIG BALLS tho LOL
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
I have TASTE ...impeccably good taste
None of my beeswax?!?!? How so? I feel it is our business to know these things and I'm sure you are are just funning me on this, correct? Now, Miss Kross, let us all know. If you want to be a celeb you have to expect this.
yes I am giving ya shiiiit hahaha...
I thought I was already a celeb *wink* Reaching a greater public audience is cool with me.
Would you consider yourself an "Alt Model", or is all of the tattoos, piercing, goth, fetish, etc... so mainstream now, that nothing is Alt?
No I don't consider myself to be an Alt Model. I am just myself. "Alternative" that word is a throw back to the nineties LOL...
That I am a compassionate caring and even sweet person
oooooh that's a BIG word hahaha I do not like CHURCH and I think politics and religion should be separated. Church and State should be separated in my opinion.
What is the best way to get to eagle rock from downtown? Do you know of any good art galleries in Eagle rock? If so what locations? thanks
oh i have no idea...i am new to LA sooo your guess is good as mine. GOOGLE IT
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
I keep a close watch on this heart of mine I keep my eyes wide open all the time I keep the ends out for the tie that binds Because if you were mine, I would walk the line I find it very, very easy to be true I find myself alone when each day is through
While you may infrequently shave a slaves head, undoubtedly you shave, or require your slaves to groom other parts of their bodies, to serve and amuse you.
This is true...I like shaving other areas also and for slaves to have good Hygiene. *wink*
On the topic of certification, this is a good site http://www.bdsmtrainingsecrets.com/Dominatrix.htm and there are others. I could see this going mainstream into some liberal colleges, if so would you consider trying to become a professor of kink?
Oh thank for the links I will check them out for sure. I would like to teach...yes...I feel it is really important to share the knowledge and the philosophy.
What advice would you give to someone getting back into playing after taking off a year due to the sad loss of a long time Mistress?
BE good to yourself...start out little by little and take it slow perhaps a session here and there until you feel comfortable with it. I would suggest you find a compassionate Mistress with whom you can build a particular rapport.
Do you think that the LA market has become saturated with Pro-dommes?? Would you be for or against licensing the trade, legitimize it with a registration, to kind of thin out the herd?
No I would not wish to license or register the trade then we would have all these so called "regulations." Big cities or major métropolitain cities tend to have more Domina's it's been the way. LA has been considered oversaturated with Mistresses for many years BUT it would seem that certain women build good reputations and the subs can pick and choose who they like to see. It is sometimes difficult I think for subs to find the "right" Mistress to serve. One they have chemistry with and that he may click with. I don't think it is necessary to thin the herd so to speak. *laughing* I think if women get into this thinking they are going to make a quick buck they are mistaken. Being a Pro-Domme you have have to have a certain mindset and training. There are safety issues. I'm not sure certification might be cool but what client is going to ask for certification. It's not like you can go to college and learn how to become a Dominatrix it is a personal journey and one of discovery. A school of Hard Knocks. *laughing* So many Mistresses it amazing over the years with the internet how many women have got into the industry. I was told long ago that most only last up to three years and some not even that long and to be a career girl well you gotta really be dedicated and have a real love BDSM and you have to have a lot of tolerance and patience and passion to maintain longevity. We all have a shelf life.
It is always different year to year week to week. Used to be in the early days I would be super busy sometimes 3-5 sessions a day and when I tour or work as a visiting Mistress in other cities I tend to do a lot of sessions. Now with the economy being what it is things have slowed back considerably. I think on average 3-5 sessions a week is good business. Sometimes though it can busy and then nothin' It is unpredictable the business. It is good to have "regulars."
If you like Pina Coladas And getting caught in the rain If you're into yoga If you have half a brain If you'd like making love at midnight In the dunes on the Cape Then I'm the love that you've looked for! Will you please write to me and escape??
No, I am not really very athletic at all and I should probably go to the gym but I am not really motivated to go frequently. I do like yoga though.
Thank you and Nooo NO NO...I have not had any plastic surgery. That freaks me out I wish to age gracefully and I have never had a boob job or a face lift or any alteration to my body. I have never even had a botox treatment. I just don't think plastic surgery is for me I would just rather do what I can to maintain my natural beauty.
If you had not become a sex worker, what line of work do you think you would be in? Sales, engineering, law perhaps?
I was attending college when I got my start and was going to the San Francisco Art Institute. I was working towards a degree in fine arts and film making. I did get my BFA now though I think if I could or would change careers I would go into nursing or become a psychologist/therapist. I can't really afford the schooling though now. I really like the healing arts as well like massage therapy or reiki. Nursing would probably be my choice now or to be an artist, a singer.
yes, but only once. aaaaah i won't go into the details but yes.
How do you approach getting subs to buy you things, do you straight out ask them or do you use the power of suggestion as some other dommes do to alleviate any guilt you may have for taking advantage of their weaknesses?
If a submissive wishes to buy me gifts I accept them with gratitude. I do not manipulate subs to buy me things. Some of my subs wish to contribute to my dungeon and buy me toys and some have bought me clothes or shoes or taken me on shopping trips. I have an amazon wish list also. I do not "expect" gifts. I do like presents and I like to be pampered. I have been treated once in a great while to a massage or a pedicure. Gifts certainly make me feel appreciated and I like to feel that I am appreciated.
I had seen a Dominatrix that had a particular fetish (She enjoyed do head shavings on men). Have you done hair removal during sessions?
I have done some head shaving it is rare I get to do this but I have and I like it.
Friday, May 14, 2010
Yes, music is essential for me during sessions It creates a mood and tone for sessions. I tend to listen to some movie soundtracks. I have listened to James Bond soundtracks or Hitchcock like North by Northwest, Amelie, Dracula, 8mmm.
Other stuff Marlene Dietrich, some classical is always good, Tricky or Kruder and Dorfmeister, various dubstep like Burial. I don't actually liten to a lot of metal or hard core punk or anything during sessions it can be distracting. I like something that is moody or dramatic or even relaxing. I tend to tune in to the music quite a bit it adds to my sessions. It is rare I would do a session without music.
I am relaxing today and doing some office workie stuff and later tonight I am going to the Play Party at Passive Arts. Tomorrow, I am going to the LA DomCon Convention Hall and check it out and say hello to some folks.
Sunday, I plan to relax probably go the flea market in early part of the day.
Usually I hang out and play/practice music. I like to go to the redwood downtown and listen to music or I take a bath and pamper myself. I also like to play shootem up video games ;-) or read or write or go out for foooood !!! mmmmm
No, I don't offer brown showers...I repeat I do not do brown showers.
First question of the morning and it's about brown showers bleh I am not into it. I only do golden showers. GOLDEN ONLY !!!!! NO RED NO ROMAN NO BROWN. GOT IT ?
Thursday, May 13, 2010
I could try it, sure....
Looking back on where you're from, and the woman you've become, do the strangest things seem suddenly routine?
No not really....I guess there are things i do that would seem soooo strange to vanilla people, yeah. I am a very strange housewife hahahaha doing the laundry, washing dildos, dusting dungeon furniture and secretarial work to a session. There is nothing strange about my life. *laughing* I don't really think about it as routine. I am happy about the woman I have become.
Looking back at the many gag reflexes that you have stilled through consistent mouth raping, have you ever had one vomit all over you?
No, only one time have I made someone throw up. It wasn't that big a deal really or gross or anything.
I am actually really kind of old fashioned when it comes to being courted. I'm not sure... I am very romantic about this sort of thing.
I have seen many, many Artistic images of you. Is there any one image that is, thus far, your favorite?
I don't know that I have a favorite image. I like modeling it is creative and fun and I can be so many characters. I am not sure I have a favorite. I liked how the Night Porter series turned out with me acting as Charlotte Rampling. I like shooting with Aaron Hawks though the best because we really work well together artistically. He get's' me so it makes things more interesting I think. I like his image of me that is black and white where it looks like I have black eyes I look beaten down somehow. I can look very beautiful or kind of fucked up. It might confuse some people who view pictures of me I suppose. I am not really a fetish model exactly. We can shoot more fetish imagery and I probably need to or should. It is so strait forward it is not as interesting as doing something else that is erotic or even strange.
you said anything..I assume your daughters are mostly grown. Do they know what you do for a living and do they accept it? Do you think that it shaped them in any way?
My daughters are both grown women now and yes, they know what I do for a living and have since they were teenagers. I do believe that it shaped them in some ways of course. I mean I am not your typical mother at all. They have a clear understanding about what I do and we have a lot of open communication about it. I am sure that they would like me to do something else though. I think they would like to me to find a good man and be happy in a relationship and do something else for work. Something more "normal." The girls have been so open and understanding. I have been very fortunate and I am blessed to have such amazing children. My entire family knows what I do and I have been lucky to be able to be open and honest about it.
Yes, two guys I ended up dating that were clients when I met them but I usually don't date clients and have a rule now to not date clients. I just don't think it's a good idea. I would rather date outside of my business world. My past experiences with dating clients have not been so great and I don't really wan to date submissive men. I like to play with them I just don't want to date them or be in a relationship with them necessarily.
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
You think your eyes are your sexiest part I think you can add your wicked smile that can not get out of my head The smile that you had while forcing me drinking your piss from a glass while I was cuming on your feet and then licking it clean.
Oh my wicked smile...
I enjoy using my sexuality to tease the submissive it is really essential to my play style. I don't like sessions that feel contrived at all. I want to entice the submissive and using my sexuality is a way in which I can coerce him into taking more for me or to just tease him without mercy. As if this were torture LOL....
Other dominants don't ? Really ? Uhmm well I can't really speak for them now can I. We all have our own play styles. We are all different.
Thank you....I do wear leather and latex quite a bit actually especially for sessions for those who request it.
I agree that's why I'm here asking you directly, you know some Mistresses/Domina's sometimes talk shit about others to keep you from seeing someone else. So, more fun to blind fold sub's or make them look?
I think is great to use the blindfold part of the time and then take it off and let them look and tease the sub in that way. Unless it is a sensory deprivation session then hoods are the way to go deeper.
Monday, May 10, 2010
Ya seriously, some chick named talia told me that about the onyx and some other stuff, don't matter to me though, what your favorite thing about the city we share, LA?
uhmmm well I wish people would stop making assumptions about me. Ask me directly and deal with with me directly.
My favorite things about LA ? It has yet to be determined. I like that there seems to be more opportunity here so many creative people. It is an interesting place LA. I like that there are many places to go and new people to meet and music.
Is that what you heard hahahahaha silly rumors....Nooooo I have a remarkable black onyx ring that I wear not all of the time but often.
Onyx is known to separate. It can help release negative emotions such as sorrow and grief. It is used to end unhappy or bothersome relationships.
Onyx guards against negativity
Onyx jewelry is worn to defend against negativity that is directed at you. Black stones have protective energies in the sense that black is the absence of light, and therefore, can be used to create invisibility.
* Fortifies self confidence and responsibility
* Sharpens your senses
* Encourages a healthy egotism
Clean and clear with Sea Salt
I understand you have two daughters, I do as well, with mothers day yesterday I was reminded by how much joy they brought to my life, how was your mothers day?
I went to a BBQ that was nice....
The girls are up north so I did not get to spend the day with them. They texted me lol
I may be biased but my girls are really beautiful and amazing *smiles*
OK, I won't rile you up, just thought you'd be excited since his nominee is a Woman. Now for something completely different, what laundry detergent do you prefer and do you you liquid softener or the dryer sheets?
Gender in politics is not as important as it is their politics that matter and the power they have to change things for the better that truly matter. Sarah Palin is a woman and there is no way in hell I would ever want her to be president. I wasn't even certain I wanted Hilary Clinton either. I voted for Obama but I am not really pleased with the sales pitch of hope and change....bullshit. Sure he's smart and he is a slick talker.
Right now I am using a Laundry Detergent called Up&UP it is biodegradable/plant based. Sometimes I use fabric softener Downy and I use dryer sheets yeah, I hate static cling.
What I do know of you, the little it is, it would be a loss if you didn't write sn autobio, both for you and for those of us who would read it. But it is a different process than other writing, have you read one you admire?
Well I am going to give it shot, like I said I started writing it. It is hard to write it so strait forward without it sounding a bit boring. I would not want to bore my reader. The structure and order of things is a challenge. Also, names and changing the names of people as well I am not sure how to deal with that problem. I'm just going to write and keep writing and we will see how it turns out. I will need an editor definitely. I have not read an autobiography in a long while the last one I read was by Marilyn Manson.
Oh the politics don't get me all riled up now... I am not a big fan of American Government it's leaders or policies. That pretty much sums it up doesn't it. It's all bullshit.
That it is all about pain, in my opinion it is about the power dynamics. The seduction of it is where the control is; to be seduced into accepting moreto be sexually open. It seems most people seem to think it is about the aspects of pain and humiliation. BDSM is ultimately about dominance and submission. There are many activities and things to do to a person to create stimuli. It is about how to initiate and create a session within a specific context.
The mind is our greatest sex organ. BDSM is about our fantasies being brought to life. To trust our play partners and to let go. There are the formalities and the ritual of the play. Not everyone is into pain I would say most people are not masochists and the word fetish is certainly misused so much of the time. BDSM is like great foreplay. The visual of it can come off as frighting or intimidating and I have talked to people they say I'm not into pain, you don't have to into pain. I would say it is about the psychology and it is the psychology that is misinterpreted.
Do you ever do sessions w/ other Domms, as in double tops? Have you ever worked with or been in contact with Petra Saint?
I don't do a lot of double sessions I used to. I am not opposed to it.
I never worked with Petra Saint that is to say I have never co-topped with Petra Saint. I used to rent her dungeon space many years ago. I haven't really talked with her in a long long while. She retired and moved away it's been quite some time. She was an amazing Domina !!!!
the eyes have it i think
yes, sometimes... the female to male equation yes it's complicated. wish there were no games involved and the communication could be open and honest but there is a problem with that also that each person may each be sensitive or offended. we are all fucked *laughing* i wouldn't give up on women you just need to work it out or find a different one.
I have decided to start working on writing an autobiography I'm not sure what I would title it right now I am thinking "CHAPTER 9"
of course the feelings should be mutual. i would suppose i have not met him yet.
Saturday, May 8, 2010
How do you stay so slim? Would you say you are just naturally that way or do you work out like crazy?
i have a very high metabolism and i am just damn lucky. i don't really work out at all; i should though just to firm things up
well it's not really color ~ black
Friday, May 7, 2010
That I could be with the one man I truly love
There a lot of gray areas when it comes to the biz...
if there is money exchange and arousal that is classified as prostitution. put a camera in the room and make porno have everyone provide two forms of ID and it's not illegal. There have been vice busts in some cities and girls charged with counts of prostitution for have unopened condoms in the space. Strap on play is risky but....Dommes have been doing strap on for years n years n years.
We try not to talk about it on the phone much for obvious reasons and no one wants to deal with vice cops or to get arrested that's no fun.
I would rather fuck my lover or lovers that is the bottom line.
I don't want to fuck just any slave that walks in my door and offers me money. Clients now see all these video's and these gals who are "Mistresses" who are fucking their "slaves" I hate to break the myth but really they are porn stars fucking porn stars it's a movie folks a movie it's not real. And, it damn fine entertainment.
The internet and the fetish porno industry has changed the client in a lot of respects. They have all these fantasies and they think to themselves they want to go see a Pro-Domme and they can do exactly a scene like what they see on Men in Pain or Divine Bitches this is not so.
Yeah, there is a danger I never said I wasn't tempted to want to have sex with a client here n there or have had a strong attraction for some guys I have had sessions with. Guys have offered me amazing amounts of money to fuck them more than what the porno company pays that is a fact and I have still turned it down. Oh well... I don't do brown showers either I have my limits too I wish people would respect them.
I've sucked cock on film that doesn't mean I'm gonna suck my clients cock. Business is business and video is a different business from the Pro-Domme live session industry. Always has been.
Sorry to hear of the flaker, on that subject I have noticed a proliferation of "full service" dommes and from what I understand some actually are real dommes and have great skills, how do you feel about the "full service" dommes?
I have no issue with full service Dommes if they wish to provide full service that is their business.
However, I have never offered full service and since doing fetish porn with kink.com I get way more calls for full service but I don't engage in sex in live in person sessions. I have been stating this over and over again just to drive the point home I guess I need to keep repeating myself. I don't want to it puts my business at risk and well it's not legal. I liked doing the fetish porno but only with outstanding companies like kink.com
When it comes to the independent Pro-Domme Business I have I have a reputation and my integrity to maintain.
It was a standard rule for as long as I can remember the NO SEX rule.
I am sure there are those Mistresses who have done it anyway or broken the rule but....
Full service sessions well, I just don't want to "do it" it doesn't match my philosophy about BDSM at all.
OK, when you come to Chicago I'm going to sketch you, can't wait!! But nothing lame like a mask symbolizing a double life or a bottle of tequila symbolizing debauchery, just raw and beautiful simone kross. You said Chicago is on your list correct?
Yes, Chicago !!!!!!! definitely Chicago
Lately I Have noticed many people referring to someone as a "dear friend" or "one of my dearest friends", do you use this term? and if so at what point does someone go from friend to a dear dear friend?
Yes, I have used this term and I have "friends" and then there are friends who are much closer to me.
I have fake friends or people who say they are my friend but in reality probably not so much. It is rare I use this term unless it applies. For instance, I have know this gal since I was in my twenties we were "friends" room mates a long while ago, always kept in touch she has been there for me and never judged me. She has been a supportive and positive influence in my life. I feel I could call her at any hour on any day. She is vibrant and generous. I would say she is my "dear friend" I do not feel this way about a lot people. I have amazing friends and good friends and not so good friends and friends that if even I do not talk with them for long periods of time and then just call it is like there was never any distance between us.
Friends I hold closer to my chest or in my heart I would consider them dear friends.
long time reader, love you and your show... yes you need to do a reality show I would love to follow you, it would be a smash! If someone approached on this would you do it?
I have been considering the idea yes and there has been some talk about it. I am not a big fan of most reality shows and I am not sure how it would go. It's possible....
I have been asked this question many times and I find that this is a question that is hard to for me to answer, This question and what is my favorite thing to do ?????? I have to say I cannot narrow it down to one thing not even two things. I love the play and I love all kinds of play I will repeat, ALL KINDS of PLAY. I am open to most everything I have my few limits but I like sexy, sultry, fun and imaginative sessions. I like the idea of keeping a slave overnight and having him in a captive situation a more extended session where I can get into things a little deeper. It is not what I have never done it is what I love to do to get into or given the opportunity to be able sink into all these different head spaces. This slave would have to be into bondage, captivation spanking corporal and servitude. Tease and Denial. It doesn't have to be super hard core but the idea that I have a slave for longer periods of time is cool.
Nekkid n shoes ....lol jeans and a t-shirt. I like fetish wear a lot but it can be really confining to play in most of the time. Rubber or Latex is great but depends on the weather. I love corsets, garters and stockings mostly and high heels.
Hello, first time interrogator, long time reader, love you and your show, What are you doing this weekend?
My show....I need my own show hahaha.
I was supposed to do a session tonight but now I'm not so sure so if he flakes I am going to a play party tonight and tomorrow night I am hanging out with one of my dearest friends.
Do you like Santa? Did you allways got the presents you asked for? I never did, I hate Santa, do you have a slave that look like Santa so we can tortured him together? while he is wearing Santa uniform, Just imagine forcing Santa to suck cock.
Santa izz kinda scary...all the kids cry when they get their pictures taken with him at the mall whaaa and no I didn't always get all the presents I asked for whaaaaa & I do happen to have a slave that looks like Santa up in the Bay Area hahaha. Santa sucks cock; coool *laughing* I get to dress up like one of Santa's sexy elves and do naughty things to him right ? I like the tights they wear and those short skirts not so sure about those shoes that curl tho.
Thursday, May 6, 2010
I have used Extended stay hotel near the staduim but there are alot of good ones in San Diego goddess
I will consider coming down to SD
*laughing* YES U MUST !!!!
also ~ regarding my favorite thing to do as a DOMME is probably CBT it is hard to pick a favorite thing I like everything mostly but if I had to pick one activity it would be CBT.
I have never been a visiting Mistress is San Diego. It's not so far away that I could not drive down and visit for a few days though. Where is the best place to stay ? What Hotel ?
Sarah Palin and Hillary Clinton both call you to set up a session, but you only have time for one, who do you choose to see and why?
Sarah Palin, because I really want to ball gag her and pull her hair and probably just humiliate her and do other bad, bad things including locking her up and throwing the key so that she does NOT have any chance to run or win the presidency cuz ya know she is gonna try for that arrrgh...
my eyes, my hands, and some rope.
oh last night was fun...only one really pretty girl tho and she happens to be one of my best friends ever, Miss Cinnamon Britches. she did her burlesque show over at El CID it was awesome !!!! i will post video on FB gimme a moment or two.
Do you think it's strange that when they execute someone by lethal injection they swab their arm with alcohol prior to starting the I.V. to avoid infection?
yeah...but it sounds like a smart ass mind fuck thing to do to a person right before they die. procedures, ya know...
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Happy Cinco de Mayo, just wondering what you are doing to celebrate today? Do you feel closer to this holiday now that you live in LA?
I absolutely love Mexican culture and the food...I haven't made any plans for today. I do feel closer to this holiday now that I am here yes and I have amazing memories of Día de los Muertos in Mexico City years ago and the processions in San Francisco. Last year I went to the street festival in SF. I should go out for margaritas later or something. mmmmm Margaritas !!!!
You are going to Domcon LA, what do you usually get out of an event such as that? What is typically the highlight for you? Finding more clients, other dommes, good food?
Yes, I plan to attend. It is strange ya know I have always traveled in the convention circuit but I have not ever been to LA's DomCon. I am excited to go because I will be able to reconnect with friends and folks in LA and now that I live here it will be a good thing. I have never really gained more clients by going to a Con though and the food is terrible usually. It is the shopping, the workshops, the people and the parties. I like going to the conventions I used to go to BondCon is Vegas years ago and I have been attending FetCon in Florida for a number of years now and have been to a few events in London.
No, not yet. I am going to wait until after DomCon LA and then make some decisions about traveling or touring again. Texas seems to really want me to pay them a visit. I have never played pro or spent any time in Texas. Chicago was great last year and now that it is springtime it makes traveling so much easier. Cleveland was good to me and DC also.
Yes, Chicago is a priority.
You have created a great play space in LA, do you rent it out to other dommes and if so which dommes rent from you?
The space is really cool; very modern but keep in mind it is not a commercial dungeon necessarily it is also my home. It is live work/space. I would rent to a few select Mistresses, sure. I have not really been renting to anyone. The space is ideal for video shoots and I would rent it out for that also. I would like to host intimate play parties and workshops here as well.
would you consider doing more public performance work in your future and if so is there something that you would like to do?
yes, i would consider doing performance work. i am not sure what i would like to do though i am not a burlesque girl not really. i have done some performance work before for the SF Fetish Ball modeling/runway. I have done performances for private parties also. I would consider playing on stages at the clubs perhaps. I am still hoping to be able to do music performances also but that is an entirely different kind of thing from bdsm performance obviously.
So if I see you on Friday night at the Passive arts play party I can approach you ask you if you feel like playing if you answered yes I can handle you an envelope with a session donation and ask you politely to spank me cane me torture me piss in mymouth
if i feel like playing then yes, and we can negotiate privately about activities regarding the play.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
I do plan to attend....I am not certain if I will play or not. I am pretty spontaneous about that sort of thing if the opportunity arises and I feel like playing then yes, I would.
How tall are you barefoot and in your highest heels? And do you leverage your height to enhance the domination experience?
I am 5'5 in my barefeet and probaby 5'9 or so in heels and yes, high heels make me feel more powerful and more dominant i do like towering over the submissive.
Have you ever gone on Chatroulette? If so what did you think? It might be fun to announce on twitter that you are going on chatroulette and then see how many people find you there.
No, i have not and probably would not..sounds kinda fun but I don't really like instant messaging or chats. Skype is cool with friends but to talk with people on Chatroulette would be strange I think. I've never tried it before.
Monday, May 3, 2010
When are you gonna do a post a song post on facebook again? (That wasn't how it started but it kinda ended up that way. It was fun and I think you should make that kross tradition when you have time) Doll
oh i post songs and video's all the time. i haven't posted a video yet today. I did upload two new video's of me singin' some new songs so you can check em out as well. I will keep on posting the music on facebook for sure.
More conspiracies...I do not believe in the lone gunman theory no.
You forget everyone that brings your moving crew a plate of sandwiches and puts drinks in your fridge ? Is that humiliation or domestic service I got for free ? ;)
Depends on how you look at it I guess haha...you offered and I have nothing but appreciation and gratitude for all the people that help me out. I have not forgotten.
A few years ago, your website linked to some vignettes you had written. I can’t locate them anymore but they were stunning. Have you written more? Would you ever consider publishing them?
I have not been writing in that style for some time now. I am sure I have some samples of the previous text saved. I had not really considered publishing any of it. I felt it was stream of consciousness there is no real structure to the writing at all. It was kind of an autobiographical fiction of sorts. I have a lot of writing that is unfinished and unpublished. I wasn't really certain it was something that could be considered for a book. I'm not sure it would or does make sense to people. I have been writing more lyrical stuff these days. Songs...I suppose I could get back into the erotica. The thing is though I do not only come from a position of Dominance in the previous work I also utilize a female submissive voice based on my personal experiences. I'm not sure but this can be confusing for some if they have one idea about me and that idea is that I am only a "Dominatrix" and that's it that's all. I am an artist as well. I don't like that I feel I have to fit into one category. It seems you like the writing, I am flattered.
Do you have the single tail skills to do a permanent mark on a slaves back? And does it turn you on to do it? Can you get an ass virgin slave with a tight hole into fisting in his first session and if not how long does it takes?
Permanent marks are more significant and in my opinion should have deep meaning. I have the single tail skills to draw blood and can leave marks and have but to leave a more lasting mark or impression I would want it to really truly mean something to the submissive. I have left a lasting impression on some slaves. This whole subject of whether or not certain activities turn me on why do I feel as if I am always having to convince people that this is "real" for me. Yes, it is a turn on and yes I get off on it or I wouldn't bother to engage in these activities. Also, in regards to marks I only leave marks on those submissives who request marks and I don't just lay into someone.
To answer the second question, a first timer who is a as you say a virgin slave will not be able to accept an entire fist. You have to do anal training to be able to get into fisting usually and since each persons body is different the time it takes to train varies; stretching and dilating are important. So no I would not do this in a first session or with a first timer. You gotta work up to this sort of play and be in the right head space for it as well.
i previously answered a question that pertained to the music genres i listen to and who my influences are. if you scroll through you will find the answer to this question. i listen to a lot of different kinds of music. i prefer to listen to the blues mostly; older stuff...and was turned on to a lot of blues by my musician friends. i learn a lot from listening.
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Hello, in your twitter background photo it looks like you are tightening up a humbler on a sub, what were you thinking at that exact moment? To me your expression is that of the mundane, you could easily be turning on the stove or the coffee maker.
I don't remember what I was thinking at that exact moment. But I can tell you playing it wasn't mundane. I was playing with Kade and I really love to play with Kade. I am usually really focused on the play so perhaps my facial expressions are more serious or cold. I don't know... I am really into the play always have been. It is not a mundane thing for me. I am in the moment I have a lot to think about in those moments actually like how it turns me on and what am I going to do next to get a reaction from the submissive.
Kade is a joy to play with and I feel I have real chemistry with him.
Yes, but I am sure I have disappointed others also. I don't think it is good to get into back biting bitchy shit it is not healthy or productive. I have had my feelings hurt by other Pro's but it isn't like I haven't learned something from them.
Veronica's death....well I have nothing but sympathy and compassion for those who were closest to her. Veronica always told me how much she looked up to me. Her death made me sad of course. I suppose her passing gives me a new perspective on life. I have a lot of different emotions around this. I was not as close to her as others were and I wanted to be there for my friends. It was stressful and it was awful and painful. I have to just believe that she is in a better place now a more peaceful place.
Friday, April 30, 2010
i am feeling better today...
You answer the questions here so openly and genuine to me and I believe to others as well it gives more power to be more open in our own life,and I thank you for that. you are a gorgeous and a very strong woman have no fear with your faith youll succeed
What is more difficult for you; looking into someone’s eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someone’s eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
looking into someone’s eyes when you are telling someone how you feel. depends on what i am telling them i guess if it's really serious it can be hard for me to do without getting all emotional.
yes, sounds like a hot scene but probably not something i would do unless it was a private situation.
the two men one woman thing is a sexy fantasy for me.
life and love and how things change...i think about what i learn from people and experiences.
my daughters and my friends. going to cool art show performance stuff. the extra action marching band shows i miss the grit and the grimy feeling of oakland; there is no place like it. punk and metal shows and a few of the shops and the organic grocery stores.
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Have you clearly a real sentimental life or is it too complicated to find someone who understand your life's style ?
oh there are so many misconceptions about me i think and my life. i am sentimental, yes and my life is also. i am a romantic perhaps i am in love with the idea of being in love. i have been involved with a few men who understood me and my lifestyle and it was good and they seemed to understand what my needs were on very personal levels. Right now not so much. I've had to let go of my loves and now focus on myself. I am trying to be as open and as forgiving as possible.
Thanks for answering my questions. I did meet you once personally and I know you are genuine and very cool. Playing my guitar makes me happy when I'm worried does it do the same for you?
Happy to answer questions...the music well sometimes i feel it is a curse. It makes me happy it makes me frustrated because I tend have this way about me doing very minimal chords and I am more vocally focused. It makes me feel better it puts me in touch with how I can find ways to express myself even though it is like facing my greatest fears in some respects. The songs are a way for me to reach out and to share them with other people; maybe other people can relate to me in this way also instead of me holding it all inside.
Have you run across someone asking you to do something you just couldn't? Professionally speaking, I mean. Also, I don't mean asking you for something illegal, rather asking you for something that you simply couldn't bring yourself to provide.
yeah...there are a few things for sure I am not into brown showers or scat AT ALL and lot's of guys ask me for this. I'm not into that at all. No red showers or Roman showers either & No sex.
I'm not a prostitute and I'm just not into certain things I feel are really personal or what I even consider to be hygienically unsafe.
Sorry to hear the slow go, I will send you good thoughts, but I know you will make it. Do you have a favorite tattoo?
Thanks...well hopefully things will improve. It took me a little while to settle in and I have been going through some growing pains. A favorite tattoo. I am quite fond of my rino beetle.
I am very child like in the ways that I am so I try and look at the world that way sometimes. I enjoy traveling and other people inspire me. People of all kinds of cultures and other artists. Oh and I think flowers and animals are perfect.
OMG! you are worried your business will fail?!?! Thats terrible, don't worry everything will flow for you. You are the best ever you cannot fail!!
Well this economy has been tough and I moved to LA and honestly things have been slow n go....
right now the answer to that is yes....
love is about acceptance and understanding. for someone to love me completely they would have to understand me on a lot of levels and i would have to do the same for them. love...sigh...it's about partnership and compromise. It is challenging. I have had so many experiences with unrequited love a lot of heart ache. It might have something to do with my lifestyle and that people perceive me in the way that they do. I do feel I am worthy of love...
Good day to You Mistress. What qualities do you find most and least attractive (physical and mental/spiritual)?
qualities in people ? I am guessing that is what you mean. For me the least attractive is people who are lie or are malicious and or deceitful. Ugly is as ugly does. I think it is attractive when people are creative and expressive and honest. Even if the truth hurts at least it is forthcoming and I like people who are "for real" not some fake ass shit. I also think being a spiritual person is important. The magical qualities that people have if they work with their strengths this is a good thing. No matter how hard it is to do it takes courage and we have to live for today for now in this moment.
I would say I wish I were in control of everything but it's like that scene in fight club when
Tyler Durden says to let go of the wheel...it's a hard thing to do...to let go it's difficult. Things go the way they do. A really good friend of mine told me the only thing we can really do is to control our reaction or response. Sounds easy enough but I am thoughtful about my choice to act or respond this takes practice and sometimes we have no choice but to let go of people and situations or circumstances.
Can you describe your life with a six word sentence? Here's mine: My heart continually expands in joy.
I completely trust in the universe.
I think that if you pour a glass of something let's say I am pouring a glass of milk until it reaches the top and then I drink it or consume it then if I am still thirsty I need to pour myself another glass of milk. I have never much liked this saying. I wake up every day and I do what is right in front of me. I hope this answers this question. I don't know really...
I don't like to IM not on myspace not on FB not really anywhere. It soaks up my time with guys who want to talk with me about kink or perv out. My feeling is that like a psychologists people have to pay to talk with one and they should have to make contributions for my time. When I log and the chat is on my computer lights up like a Christmas tree. It is overwhelming and most guys just say hey baby and want to hook up. It's annoying....
I have three guitars. One Ibenez Acoustic, one is a Les Paul Zakk Wylde electric...and I have a beautiful black Epiphone that is a semi-hallow. A favorite I would have to say right now the acoustic. I think I jive with it more my sound ya know. Actually, I wish I could just focus on singing rather than struggling with the guitar. I love my guitars though. I love going to guitar shops and just staring at all of em.
I definitely understand the Prodomme thing, and I assume you have the integrity to let those who are quasi slaves know its NOT real, but I specifically asked about those you consider your personal slaves, lifestyle? Maybe I used the wrong terminology.
I don't have any personal slaves now. I have and I did and those men are among my dearest of friends and are considered and are a part of my family. We all changed on many levels and our lives changed so things are just different now. They are marked for life tattoos and branding's and emotionally so am I
You mentioned having a personal slave "is like having a relationship of sorts", does that mean that your slaves aren't meaningful to you. I mean either it is a real personal relationship or it isn't, just business perhaps.
Here is the thing....I am a PRO-DOMME
so there is the business end of this right...I care a great deal actually about my clients. Clients have different needs and they are NOT really slaves. This slave thing the term is thrown around so loosely. I think I care too much actually. I give careful consideration to those who ask to be my personal slave I would want to be able to have all the open communication that I would in a relationship. It depends on the individual I am negotiating with though. Slaves have different desires and needs and what about mine. There is still give and take in relationships they cannot be one sided. Comunication is key. I have been in life style 24/7 BDSM relationships and also done my "JOB" I like my "JOB" It seems like people think it's all about the money. I have been a pro-domme for 13 years now do you think that is all about the money because sometimes I might make a $1000 bucks in a week and sometimes nothing at all. I never know... I guess what it comes down to is this, I really like what I do and I am damn good at it. I got one hell of a reputation (laughing) Some people are even scared to call me since the word is I am a true sadist but I tailor the sessions to the client. I play within their parameters and or limits. I am into most everything so I enjoy it I get off on it, Especially psychologically !!!
I don't really do drugs at all. I smoke a little weed and I haven't really been doing much of that either these days. I have a drink here and there but I can't drink much or I get sick. I used to do drugs wayyyy back in my twenties ya know acid, X whatever. I could never handle the drugs very well. Some folks assume I might be a junkie or do a lot of drugs I have never done heroin and I hate cocaine i don't think i can do acid ever again i have always had bad trips on e. YUCK at best i have had a few good times on magic mushrooms. I don't need drugs...maybe an anti anxiety pill would be helpful once in a while.
Oh this is tough...I have been struggling with being a musician for a while now and I have terrible stage fright. I feel I have so much more confidence as a Dominatrix but if I had to choose I would choose to be a singer songwriter. Luckily I do not have to choose I can be both.
You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You get enough time to make ONE phone call. Who would you call?
One call damn... I would want to call my daughters both of them if I had to pick only one to call I don't think I could do it.
It is harder for me to tell someone I love them.
In the past it would have been Kendra Knight now I mostly session solo.
I adopted the name Simone from a character in a book called Story of the Eye by Georges Bataille. I liked the name and Kross had many different associations. the religious implications, the Saint Andrews cross, A stern and cross woman or mother figure. The gothic thing spelling it with a K changed it a bit. I think it is a strong name and I need a feminine but strong name.
How long does it take for you to decide if you want to turn a client into a personal slave/sub? Can you tell right away? Or has this ever happened?
I have had a few personal slaves...I don't know how long it may take me to decide. I have had slaves ask me and I cannot commit to an entire stable of slaves and slaves require attention and care. With some it is like a relationship of sorts. I could have a houseboy or an female apprentice. I don't think I want a full time personal slave right now.
no...ivan was the king of cats. i was traveling to much and now i don't know if i can have an animal. i would like to have a dog but it is too much of a commitment. i was thinking i might get a couple birds. cats will claw up the dungeon furniture and a dog is an issue if i have a session besides a dog deserves to have a great big yard.
When I was 30 I dated an 18 year old guy who I went to college with. He was interesting I don't think I would ever date taht young again I also went out with a 22 year old 4 years ago. Although, I don't think dating guys that young have been so great I have nothing in common with them. I still have yet to date a man older than I am. I usually like men in their mid to late thirties and early forties. They have more going on for themselves and have more experience. I tend to be a complicated woman for most men to handle and I would not classify myself as a "cougar" (laughing) I have a youthful energy and have a strong independence. I think though when it comes to "dating" I am not really so promiscuous. I would say I am more a one man kinda gal. This one man though would have to get me on a lot of levels and accept me for all that I am.
hi simone you look absolutely great!, i met a guy who wants me to piss on him and slap him in the butt. does that mean he is a sub or switch or what?. what shall i do next? i am a masochist
I would guess he is only really a bottom not a true submissive personality and also a switch. Definitely kinky... If you are a masochist and you only have the desire to bottom then you might now have the desire to top him, i don't know. If you want to explore this with him then great try it and have fun. get down n dirty. haha
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Are you happy ? Sometimes yes and sometimes no. I am a human being and have all the emotions anyone does. I have days when I am sad, mad elated, silly or whatever i have had my fair share of heartbreak and had a lot of joy also. I have been through some serious "hard times" and I am stronger for it. I have good days and bad days ya know no one can be happy all the damn time I don't believe that is even possible. So I have my ups n downs. It's a choice to be happy but emotions are emotions you feel what you feel when you are in IT.
Y dominatrix...I get the whole power kick, butt what makes U wanna B mistress? Personally I reserve the right 2 B a BITCH; and am not in2 humiliation; what has happened in Ur life that has given U such a desire?
Well you may reserve the right to be a bitch, I suppose all women do. I am not really a bitch though I am actually pretty down to earth and nice. I suppose I was destined to become a Mistress. I fell in love with a very kinky man and I started working as a professional submissive in 96' and then started switching a bit he taught me how to dominate him and I trained under some pretty amazing Mistresses at the Shadows a house of BDSM in Oakland. My becoming a Mistress just happened; it was and is my path in life I suppose. I feel that bdsm can be a very spiritual, healing and cathartic experience it is not just about the power kick it is about power exchange. I feel I can connect with people who desire to play out their sexual fantasies and I am able to bring those fantasies to life for some. It is very interpersonal work. I enjoy being a Mistress most of the time there are days of course when I might not be in the mood but if I have a session on one of those days it tends to bring me into a different head space which is good. I am able to differentiate between my persona and who I really am. Being a Mistress has been and is an amazing life's journey. I have had both good times and hard times but I have been passionate about it and true to it's philosophies and committed to excellence.
high heel shoes, shoes...and anything that makes me feel sexy and tight jeans
i do not ask or know...
So Golden Showers is hot and sexy for you are you maaking the slave drink straight from the source or from a glass? Do you preferred pissing on his body or into his open mouth? What about a cocktail Your piss and the slave or slaves cum ?
all of theeee above
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
yes, i like CBT and yes, i do it well...from simple cock and ball bondage to some extensive work. electrics, piercing, weights, whipping, stretching, smacking, pulling, kicking. it depends on what the slave enjoys tho i won't just go crazy on the family jewels i know how delicate they are.
my tattoos have very significant meanings, yes. certain experiences that transformed me or changed me all of them very sentimental. all very personal stories, right...and is a lot about my growth and my loves.
oh i love all that but golden showers are HOT HOT SEXY SEXY
Do you like directing a male on male action in a ForceBi play? and do you enjoy more seeing an Oral sex between the Men involve or you more of an Ass fucking preference? Do you have Slaves on call for such acts?
yes, i do and have many times. i enjoy seeing the oral sex probably more it can be difficult in these circumstances for men to perform at their peak at least that has been my experience. there are nerves and the apprehension and for the boys to really psyche themselves out and get into the scene completely. i do not have slaves on call for these acts no not here in LA in SF more so but i was based there for so long and have only been in LA 3months. you can't just call me and ask for this kind of session either you need to have seen me a few times before i grant this kind of session.
Monday, April 26, 2010
That is a fun fantasy but I cannot have a live in slave or dog. You could perhaps book an overnight or extended session and live in my cage for a little while just not all the time. I could board you for a shorter period of time tho.
I have only ever played in London as a visiting Mistress a few years ago and I would still like to visit London again and Germany. Paris also. I am just not sure exactly how to go about things when I am abroad and it can be expensive to travel unless I had a reliable slave to travel with.
The Night Porter with Charlotte Rampling was my first introduction into submission. Your photo session where You recreate the poses, with the leather gloves is amazing. Do You love the movie too?
i do love that movie...the first time i watched it i was on an overnight train from Florence, Italy to Paris...my friends were in a bunk below me and they were getting it on the train was cool and the movie was amazing !!! i do really love that film. glad you like the photo's Perry Gallagher really captured me well in those photo's i think.
Your film Diabolical Cruelty is the most erotic BDSM film ever made! This is not so much a question as worship of Your Essence. When You start wailing on some schmuck, it's obvious that You really get off on it. If only i could suffer for You!
well i don't see slaves as schmucks hahaha submission is a gift to the sadist in my opinion and my slave in that movie was the best slave i have had. i do get off on the administration of punishments that is certain since i am a sweet sadist *laughing* i am glad you like the film it was the first bsdm movie i did and it was nominated for an AVN award so that was cool didn't win but it was great it got the nomination. it pleases me that you have dreams of suffering for me i like that.
Sunday, April 25, 2010
i was 30 when i got into bdsm a little more hard core. i would say i was in my early twenties when i discovered a few things but i didn't get really into it until later on when i met this man who i ended up falling in love with and he was intense no question about that. we were into some heavy duty stuff and he is the reason i got into it so deep but he always said it was about me and it is.
do they really ? i'm not sure about that i would like to think that with a few select men i would make them feel stronger and that they would be honored to have me stand by them. i do not feel that all men are weak that is just dumb submission is a choice
hahaha well i am a size queen !!! I LOVE BIG COCK but if what you think that you have a big cock and that you might get to fuck me the answer is nooooo no no. (laughing) big cock equals big ego !!! there is a big difference for me between my pro life and my personal life i save the intercourse for my personal life and if i happen to do a porn film but i do not offer sex in sessions once again there is a legality issue there. i won't break my no sex rule
With some men I can tell and others sometimes maybe not. A man may drop hints but I will say one of my ex's he was a super submissive slut and at first i had nooooo idea and then i got hit with all these surprises. i love that...ya know sexual discovery is really cool as long as you are open to it and don't judge yourself or your lover. although if you are not into it whatever IT is uhm you're just not into it.
Now days I would say I am not into novices so much at all...so i would say i would be more into using a submissive man one who is responsive and into it THAT is HOT
Not much anymore...I started out as more of a submissive. I am particular very particular about who I allow to top me. It is difficult as I myself feel I am very vulnerable I need to be in control. On a personal level though with my lover I prefer the man to be more in control. It's a matter of balance for me. I like to switch a bit just not professionally.
i am looking inside of the slave it seems when i look into their eyes i am making a connection and i have no idea what goes through my head sometimes my thoughts are racing so it is hard to slow them down when i slow my thoughts down i can follow my intuition in those moments and my thoughts or ideas lead me through the session. honestly though when i am looking at you dead on i can use that as a tool or a weapon. looking into your eyes i can use this to intimidate you or seduce you it is very powerful.
yes....G I R D L E 's i want to see if i can make it as an installation piece and then see if it is possible to jump on it. hahaha
i am into a lot of different kinds of music so i'm all over the place with this one. i feel like the Rolling Stones are the best band ever. BLACK SABBATH FOREVER !!!
I am into older PJ Harvey and Nick Cave and they are pretty big influences for me and Patti Smith. Today I was listening to Lydia Lunch in the car. i dunno dub step is also cool i can get into that a bit. Noise bands not all of em some of em Nurse with Wound. Let's seeeee I am definietly into old spirituals and blues or gospel (deep souther n roots kinda stuff)
i like music with a little banjo and a little fiddle i love outlaw country. of course some old school punk stuff but i tend to like bands like eye hate god or thrasher metal and stoner metal High On Fire also i love going to those kinda shows and watching the boys thrash around. i like Pantera, Led Zepplin, Lynard Skynard, Bessie Smith, Big Mama Thorton, The carter Family, Johnny Cash of course and The legendary Hank Williams Sr. and Hank 3 i can even get into some funk James Brown or whatever i like Coltrain and Classical even opera.
Friday, April 23, 2010
Are the memories of a grat session belongs to the Mistress or the slave? Do you think it is right that a slave after a great session can use the memories to masturbate many times without rewarding the Mistress?
The memories belong to both the Mistress and the slave especially if we share the experience together. And yes, if the slave masturbates to the session i think that is appropriate unless given specific instructions not to. And he should be thoughtful to show appreciation to his Mistress...
NO SEX or sexual activity in sessions BDSM ONLY !!! i have only ever performed sexual activities for porno shoots and my lovers NOT clients or slaves. i'm NOT gonna fuck you
Thursday, April 22, 2010
i usually only ship fedex...
these questions are for you:
my personal agent ? what are you going to do for me ? and what's in it for you ?
If a good friend who you know has a huge foot fetish asks if he could remove your footwear that you've been wearing ALLDAY without socks and sniff your barefeet, would you let him?
a good friend....uhmmmm only if it were Colin Rae
Your barefeet are dangling off the edge of the bed as you try to sleep, but your man's brother who thinks you're asleep sneaks in to start sniffing your feet... Do you PRETEND to be asleep as he sniffs away or KICK HIM in the face?
kick him the face
You walk away from your work desk for a minute leaving your shoes unattended under your desk; when you return you find a note inside saying "I love your foot aroma and Thank you.": are you OFFENDED or FLATTERED?
well this note would have to come from a slave boy who would have to be in my office so flattered. i don't have a "regular desk job" lol
If you accidentally found a hidden closet full of 5000+ hardcore porn DVDs, S&M/B&D equipment, and RealDoll love dolls at your mans house, would you LEAVE HIM or SHARE with him?
There is no way I would leave him !!! hahaha I would love him more i think...so SHARE...
great...it's nice...modern and a comfortable place. it's home and will more than likely continue to be a work in progress. i have two cages a beautiful cross and two amazing bondage horses. Downtown Willie did a great job with the furniture and I am happy with my medical station also. It is really a great location and a cool place to be in downtown LA