Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Hey I have not asked you in a while, when you comin to Chicago? I must see you then, this will clear away my blues.

I can't leave right now...I am busy with projects here I will make announcements when I decide to make the trip. Cheer up...

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Have you ever surprised some random formspring follower with a phone call to cheer them up? Just askin, I mean it would sure cheer me up.

No...it's anonymous so I have no idea who you are. So i suppose you would hafta be the one to pick up the phone.

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Today I'm sad, a session with you would surely pick me up...what do you do when you are feeling blue?

awwww...that is so sweet....
When I am feeling blue I play my guitar and or try and write a song or do something artistic or call a friend.

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when u said u should be spanked how did u manage to get me to throw my shoulder out...that is some seriously dangerous mind/body control

hahaha yeah right....

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How would you rate electroplay as a form of torture? Does it dimish your role since the device is doing the work or is it great fun to watch a slave squirm in this way?

Electro-play by no means takes away from my dominance. I have a lot of control by utilizing electrics. Jump and SQUIRM yes, delightful.

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I suppose the most important thing we've learned is that...your feet are ticklish. And we've re-established that you are, in fact, gorgeous. Perfect!

indeed

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Dear Misses Kross, Have you had a chance to read my question from yesterday regarding letting my GF peg me? What do you think I should do? ~Still wondering in TX~

I read your question and deleted it for a specific reason. send a private email and I will answer your question.
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Understandable, though entirely heartbreaking, as you would be terribly sexy getting tickled ;)

I have done tickling sessions and have enjoyed them in the past. I am very specific about how this is done is all and I am not sure I would do it 4 video unless I produce it.

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Dear Mistress Simone Kross, will You once come to Switzerland? I'd be happy to serve You there :-)

Who is flying me to Switzerland and covering all my expenses ? And do you speak Swiss German ?

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Though it does mean a little out of the ordinary for you, would you ever consider doing foot tickling videos where you were the one having your feet tickled? there seem to be a lot of producers in LA.

I am not so much into being tickled, no, no not so much.

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What forums do you watch?

What forums do I watch or read ? Can you rephrase or be more specific about the question ?

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Do you enjoy force feeding a sub his own cum to drink, esp during CBT sessions, or is that not something you are into?

OH, I AM REALLY INTO THIS

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can i smell your feet simone?

not from way over you can't...you gotta make an appointment

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Someone tracing the bottom of your feet with a paintbrush - "More, Please!" or "Please! No more!"? Do explain ;)

Actually, I have had this done before...I kinda liked it. It is a nice subtle sensation at first. I don't think I would care for it for very long a time though then it would be annoying.

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Monday, May 24, 2010

Do you feel you have very strong esp powers?

I would say yes but I am more an empath. I have to really discipline myself in meditations to tap into clairvoyance. I do not feel I am as clairvoyant as I could be empathic, yes. I can tap into the emotions of a person and read that way. I would not say I am a tell your future kind of psychic. I can read into some stuff but it is more feelings I get or a picture or vision. I trust my empathic feelings so this is really helpful when it comes to sessions actually in reading the energy. I can feel things and I have many premonitional dreams that seem like Déjà vu but they are not Deja vu past life experiences. I have done past life regression and that is very interesting.

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Do you eat meat or are you a vegan or just an omnivore? What is your favorite cut of meat?

I eat whatever I want...I have not been eating as much red meat lately now I am eating more fish. I am not a vegetarian not now I have been. I seem to always go back to eating meat. I need a lot of protein to keep my energy up. Last year I had slowly cut back on all meat and cooked food and got into a raw food diet but then I started to travel quite a bit. It is difficult to maintain a raw food I think and I like all kinds of food. I want to be healthy. I naturally crave fresh food. I snack quite a bit and don't eat many heavy meals. My favorite cut of meat is a fillet minion...steak. It's been a hwile since I have had a steak. I ate a burger a few weeks ago and I had not had red meat in a while, it made feel a bit light headed. salad is great. I like Thai food and Japanese food. Chicken and fish usually. I do not eat a lot of carbs.

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DO you do yoga?

I have done yoga...I like yoga I need to get back to it. I started to go to bikram yoga and it is challenging for sure. I should go or make the time to go. It is intense.

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Are yo a smoker? And if yes, what do you smoke (weed and crack count).

I have smoked cigarettes and have attempted to quit several times and am still struggling with it. I don't smoke crack no haha yuck. I do smoke weed but not as much as I used to actually I am hardly smoking weed at all these days a little here and there.

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Hey I was wondering if I could set up a session...ok just kidding, do you ever get nervous before a session, especially with a new client? If what behaviors from the new client cause this nervous response?

*smiles* Actually, yes with a new client I can get a bit nervous just because I really don't know what to expect and it is hard to know what will transpire. Sometimes it is difficult because I feel I have to live up to a certain kind of expectation. Once, I meet and talk with the new client I feel more at ease. My confidence is there it is just that not knowing feeling and the hope for a real connection in the session. Once the session is going it is usually fine and more often than not it is a good experience. I don't like feeling like my client is a kind of "secret shopper" You know what I mean ? There are clients that write reviews and critique the Mistresses for certain forums and this fine it's just I am not interested in passing a test to see if I make the grade as a Mistress. Nervous ? Sure sometimes.

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Do you believe in Karmic law?

Yes, I definitely do there is no question about that. I believe in universal or karmic law and metaphysics.

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So how's tricks this week? Has business picked up?

So far so good...I had a photo shoot with Aaron Hawks on Saturday and we edited some of the new pics yesterday. I have some meetings today regarding studio rental and I am hoping business will improve especially since the new studio is super nice. I am planning some things behind the scenes so I am busy with the back end of the business. (pun intended) haha

Oh and a side note for the person who is writing me and addressing me with my birth name I will not answer your questions unless you use my chosen name of Simone Kross it is an issue of my personal discretion. My close friends and family only call me by my birth name. Most everyone addresses me as Simone so I request you do as well especially in a public forum.
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Dear Mistress Kross, I am in San Francisco from May 28-30 and hope you will allow me to have a session with you on May 30. I am a total slave, tending to the more extreme side... extreme cbt, nipple torture, piss and especially shit feedings

I would prefer people ask me valid questions on formspring.me that pertain to your curiosities not send session requests. However, I am no longer based in San Francisco I am now in Los Angeles. Your interests being on the extreme side all sounds fabulous EXCEPT I DO NOT DO ANY SCAT PLAY OF ANY KIND SO STOP ASKING ME FOR IT.
Thanks.
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Will You ever make another video like the on that got You an AVN nomination? and would the soundtrack be Your own music? :)

There will never be another video quite like Diabolical Cruelty. I don't think I can recreate it and the reason being is because I had such a close and personal connection with my personal slave who was Danny. If I do more video there will probably not be a soundtrack and no I would not use my own music I do not think my sound jives with BDSM action LOL

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Why don't you do clips for self-CBT instructions? It will be creative, fun and new?

i could do that...i am hoping to get back into video production here soon.

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Thursday, May 20, 2010

Can you describe your personal sex life in the last month in ten words or less?

disappointing

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I love your shoots done for Kink.com. Are you planning anymore shoots with them? Much love to you Simone Kross! You are wonderful.

Thank you...I really enjoy working with kink.com although I have no shoots scheduled with kink at this time.

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And these!!I hope you know CPR, because you take my breath away. Damn, if being sexy was a crime, you'd be guilty as charged! I must be in heaven because I'm standing next to you! If I could rearrange the alphabet, I'd put U and I together. You must be fr

now you're over doing it....bleh

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Corny huh, well try and resist these!!! Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again? Why don't you come over here, sit on my lap and we'll talk about the first thing that pops up? Save a horse, ride a cowboy.

Okay that is more creative...creativity counts...
Yes, I believe in love at first site but if ya walk by again I can get a better look atcha. Ooooh a cowboy huh...is that so...

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Well of course he must be smart and have good taste to boot if he was meeting with you, so can you provide us with any highlights??

It was pretty strait forward....talked about studio rental 4 VIDEO SHOOTS

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If I told you that you had a great body would you hold it against me???

Could ya come up with a better line than THAT ? *laughing* CORNY

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How did your "big shot" meeting go yesterday afternoon??

Oh it was GREAT !!! He's really kinky and smart that guy....

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Do you have a preference for circumcised or uncircumcised men when it comes to CBT or other activities?

No, I do not really have a preference either way the CBT is good fun. I like BIG BALLS tho LOL

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Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Well I have heard that you were sweet, but I didn't know that taste was that important to you

I have TASTE ...impeccably good taste

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None of my beeswax?!?!? How so? I feel it is our business to know these things and I'm sure you are are just funning me on this, correct? Now, Miss Kross, let us all know. If you want to be a celeb you have to expect this.

yes I am giving ya shiiiit hahaha...
I thought I was already a celeb *wink* Reaching a greater public audience is cool with me.

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Would you consider yourself an "Alt Model", or is all of the tattoos, piercing, goth, fetish, etc... so mainstream now, that nothing is Alt?

No I don't consider myself to be an Alt Model. I am just myself. "Alternative" that word is a throw back to the nineties LOL...

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If there was one thing that you wanted everyone to know about you what would it be?

That I am a compassionate caring and even sweet person

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who are you meeting with?

None of your beeswax LOL

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what are your thoughts on antidisestablishmentarianism?? Are you pro or con?

oooooh that's a BIG word hahaha I do not like CHURCH and I think politics and religion should be separated. Church and State should be separated in my opinion.

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DO you have any plans to go back to Amsterdam?

Not right now BUT... I do love and miss Amsterdam. Would be COOOOOL to go back to Europe I wanna go to BERLIN to play and party

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what music are ya rockin too today?

DAATH !!! ....the METAL today rawr

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what music are ya rockin too today?

DATH !!! ...the METAL today rawr

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What is the best way to get to eagle rock from downtown? Do you know of any good art galleries in Eagle rock? If so what locations? thanks

oh i have no idea...i am new to LA sooo your guess is good as mine. GOOGLE IT

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Tuesday, May 18, 2010

I keep a close watch on this heart of mine I keep my eyes wide open all the time I keep the ends out for the tie that binds Because if you were mine, I would walk the line I find it very, very easy to be true I find myself alone when each day is through

*tears* .......

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While you may infrequently shave a slaves head, undoubtedly you shave, or require your slaves to groom other parts of their bodies, to serve and amuse you.

This is true...I like shaving other areas also and for slaves to have good Hygiene. *wink*

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On the topic of certification, this is a good site http://www.bdsmtrainingsecrets.com/Dominatrix.htm and there are others. I could see this going mainstream into some liberal colleges, if so would you consider trying to become a professor of kink?

Oh thank for the links I will check them out for sure. I would like to teach...yes...I feel it is really important to share the knowledge and the philosophy.

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Who would your fantasy band line up consist of

Nick Cave, Johnny Cash, Keith Richards...hahaha I don't know who else I would need a slide guitarist tho for sure ;-)

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What advice would you give to someone getting back into playing after taking off a year due to the sad loss of a long time Mistress?

BE good to yourself...start out little by little and take it slow perhaps a session here and there until you feel comfortable with it. I would suggest you find a compassionate Mistress with whom you can build a particular rapport.

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Do you think that the LA market has become saturated with Pro-dommes?? Would you be for or against licensing the trade, legitimize it with a registration, to kind of thin out the herd?

No I would not wish to license or register the trade then we would have all these so called "regulations." Big cities or major métropolitain cities tend to have more Domina's it's been the way. LA has been considered oversaturated with Mistresses for many years BUT it would seem that certain women build good reputations and the subs can pick and choose who they like to see. It is sometimes difficult I think for subs to find the "right" Mistress to serve. One they have chemistry with and that he may click with. I don't think it is necessary to thin the herd so to speak. *laughing* I think if women get into this thinking they are going to make a quick buck they are mistaken. Being a Pro-Domme you have have to have a certain mindset and training. There are safety issues. I'm not sure certification might be cool but what client is going to ask for certification. It's not like you can go to college and learn how to become a Dominatrix it is a personal journey and one of discovery. A school of Hard Knocks. *laughing* So many Mistresses it amazing over the years with the internet how many women have got into the industry. I was told long ago that most only last up to three years and some not even that long and to be a career girl well you gotta really be dedicated and have a real love BDSM and you have to have a lot of tolerance and patience and passion to maintain longevity. We all have a shelf life.

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In a typical year how many sessions do you average a week?

It is always different year to year week to week. Used to be in the early days I would be super busy sometimes 3-5 sessions a day and when I tour or work as a visiting Mistress in other cities I tend to do a lot of sessions. Now with the economy being what it is things have slowed back considerably. I think on average 3-5 sessions a week is good business. Sometimes though it can busy and then nothin' It is unpredictable the business. It is good to have "regulars."

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If you like Pina Coladas And getting caught in the rain If you're into yoga If you have half a brain If you'd like making love at midnight In the dunes on the Cape Then I'm the love that you've looked for! Will you please write to me and escape??

*laughing*

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How do yo keep your fantastic shape, do you have a regular exercise regimen?

No, I am not really very athletic at all and I should probably go to the gym but I am not really motivated to go frequently. I do like yoga though.

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You look fantastic, have you had any sort or plastic surgery?

Thank you and Nooo NO NO...I have not had any plastic surgery. That freaks me out I wish to age gracefully and I have never had a boob job or a face lift or any alteration to my body. I have never even had a botox treatment. I just don't think plastic surgery is for me I would just rather do what I can to maintain my natural beauty.

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If you had not become a sex worker, what line of work do you think you would be in? Sales, engineering, law perhaps?

I was attending college when I got my start and was going to the San Francisco Art Institute. I was working towards a degree in fine arts and film making. I did get my BFA now though I think if I could or would change careers I would go into nursing or become a psychologist/therapist. I can't really afford the schooling though now. I really like the healing arts as well like massage therapy or reiki. Nursing would probably be my choice now or to be an artist, a singer.

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Have you ever scared yourself during a session? Had an oh sh!! moment?

yes, but only once. aaaaah i won't go into the details but yes.

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How do you approach getting subs to buy you things, do you straight out ask them or do you use the power of suggestion as some other dommes do to alleviate any guilt you may have for taking advantage of their weaknesses?

If a submissive wishes to buy me gifts I accept them with gratitude. I do not manipulate subs to buy me things. Some of my subs wish to contribute to my dungeon and buy me toys and some have bought me clothes or shoes or taken me on shopping trips. I have an amazon wish list also. I do not "expect" gifts. I do like presents and I like to be pampered. I have been treated once in a great while to a massage or a pedicure. Gifts certainly make me feel appreciated and I like to feel that I am appreciated.

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I had seen a Dominatrix that had a particular fetish (She enjoyed do head shavings on men). Have you done hair removal during sessions?

I have done some head shaving it is rare I get to do this but I have and I like it.

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Friday, May 14, 2010

Do you play music during sessions and if yes what do you like to listen to?

Yes, music is essential for me during sessions It creates a mood and tone for sessions. I tend to listen to some movie soundtracks. I have listened to James Bond soundtracks or Hitchcock like North by Northwest, Amelie, Dracula, 8mmm.

Other stuff Marlene Dietrich, some classical is always good, Tricky or Kruder and Dorfmeister, various dubstep like Burial. I don't actually liten to a lot of metal or hard core punk or anything during sessions it can be distracting. I like something that is moody or dramatic or even relaxing. I tend to tune in to the music quite a bit it adds to my sessions. It is rare I would do a session without music.

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So whats up for tday and the weekend?

I am relaxing today and doing some office workie stuff and later tonight I am going to the Play Party at Passive Arts. Tomorrow, I am going to the LA DomCon Convention Hall and check it out and say hello to some folks.
Sunday, I plan to relax probably go the flea market in early part of the day.

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What do you do to blow of steam after an exhausting, stressful day at the office?

Usually I hang out and play/practice music. I like to go to the redwood downtown and listen to music or I take a bath and pamper myself. I also like to play shootem up video games ;-) or read or write or go out for foooood !!! mmmmm

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Goddess, do you enjoy submitting a sub to full toilet training?

No, I don't offer brown showers...I repeat I do not do brown showers.
First question of the morning and it's about brown showers bleh I am not into it. I only do golden showers. GOLDEN ONLY !!!!! NO RED NO ROMAN NO BROWN. GOT IT ?

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Thursday, May 13, 2010

would you ever do vocals on a song if asked by a darker electronic act?

I could try it, sure....

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Looking back on where you're from, and the woman you've become, do the strangest things seem suddenly routine?

No not really....I guess there are things i do that would seem soooo strange to vanilla people, yeah. I am a very strange housewife hahahaha doing the laundry, washing dildos, dusting dungeon furniture and secretarial work to a session. There is nothing strange about my life. *laughing* I don't really think about it as routine. I am happy about the woman I have become.

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Looking back at the many gag reflexes that you have stilled through consistent mouth raping, have you ever had one vomit all over you?

No, only one time have I made someone throw up. It wasn't that big a deal really or gross or anything.

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Skippy, or Jiff, creamy or chunky?

Skippy Creamy ;-)

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If I decided that I wanted to court you, what would I have to do to git started?

I am actually really kind of old fashioned when it comes to being courted. I'm not sure... I am very romantic about this sort of thing.

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I have seen many, many Artistic images of you. Is there any one image that is, thus far, your favorite?

I don't know that I have a favorite image. I like modeling it is creative and fun and I can be so many characters. I am not sure I have a favorite. I liked how the Night Porter series turned out with me acting as Charlotte Rampling. I like shooting with Aaron Hawks though the best because we really work well together artistically. He get's' me so it makes things more interesting I think. I like his image of me that is black and white where it looks like I have black eyes I look beaten down somehow. I can look very beautiful or kind of fucked up. It might confuse some people who view pictures of me I suppose. I am not really a fetish model exactly. We can shoot more fetish imagery and I probably need to or should. It is so strait forward it is not as interesting as doing something else that is erotic or even strange.

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you said anything..I assume your daughters are mostly grown. Do they know what you do for a living and do they accept it? Do you think that it shaped them in any way?

My daughters are both grown women now and yes, they know what I do for a living and have since they were teenagers. I do believe that it shaped them in some ways of course. I mean I am not your typical mother at all. They have a clear understanding about what I do and we have a lot of open communication about it. I am sure that they would like me to do something else though. I think they would like to me to find a good man and be happy in a relationship and do something else for work. Something more "normal." The girls have been so open and understanding. I have been very fortunate and I am blessed to have such amazing children. My entire family knows what I do and I have been lucky to be able to be open and honest about it.

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Have you ever ended up dating someone you first met as a client?

Yes, two guys I ended up dating that were clients when I met them but I usually don't date clients and have a rule now to not date clients. I just don't think it's a good idea. I would rather date outside of my business world. My past experiences with dating clients have not been so great and I don't really wan to date submissive men. I like to play with them I just don't want to date them or be in a relationship with them necessarily.

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Where is your favorite place to get fetish wear?

I like to shop at a variety of stores usually but I like Syren
www.syren.com & Madame S www.madame-s.com or Stormy Leather www.stormyleather.com

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Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

You think your eyes are your sexiest part I think you can add your wicked smile that can not get out of my head The smile that you had while forcing me drinking your piss from a glass while I was cuming on your feet and then licking it clean.

Oh my wicked smile...

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I love you involve sexuality in your sessions. Why do you think most dominants don't?

I enjoy using my sexuality to tease the submissive it is really essential to my play style. I don't like sessions that feel contrived at all. I want to entice the submissive and using my sexuality is a way in which I can coerce him into taking more for me or to just tease him without mercy. As if this were torture LOL....

Other dominants don't ? Really ? Uhmm well I can't really speak for them now can I. We all have our own play styles. We are all different.

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Mistress you look so amazing in fetish wear leather and latex, Why don't you wear it more?

Thank you....I do wear leather and latex quite a bit actually especially for sessions for those who request it.

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I agree that's why I'm here asking you directly, you know some Mistresses/Domina's sometimes talk shit about others to keep you from seeing someone else. So, more fun to blind fold sub's or make them look?

I think is great to use the blindfold part of the time and then take it off and let them look and tease the sub in that way. Unless it is a sensory deprivation session then hoods are the way to go deeper.

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Monday, May 10, 2010

Ya seriously, some chick named talia told me that about the onyx and some other stuff, don't matter to me though, what your favorite thing about the city we share, LA?

uhmmm well I wish people would stop making assumptions about me. Ask me directly and deal with with me directly.

My favorite things about LA ? It has yet to be determined. I like that there seems to be more opportunity here so many creative people. It is an interesting place LA. I like that there are many places to go and new people to meet and music.

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I have heard that you wear black onyx to attract evil, how has that been working for you?

Is that what you heard hahahahaha silly rumors....Nooooo I have a remarkable black onyx ring that I wear not all of the time but often.

Onyx is known to separate. It can help release negative emotions such as sorrow and grief. It is used to end unhappy or bothersome relationships.

Onyx guards against negativity
Onyx jewelry is worn to defend against negativity that is directed at you. Black stones have protective energies in the sense that black is the absence of light, and therefore, can be used to create invisibility.

* Fortifies self confidence and responsibility
* Sharpens your senses
* Encourages a healthy egotism

Clean and clear with Sea Salt

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I understand you have two daughters, I do as well, with mothers day yesterday I was reminded by how much joy they brought to my life, how was your mothers day?

I went to a BBQ that was nice....
The girls are up north so I did not get to spend the day with them. They texted me lol
I may be biased but my girls are really beautiful and amazing *smiles*

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OK, I won't rile you up, just thought you'd be excited since his nominee is a Woman. Now for something completely different, what laundry detergent do you prefer and do you you liquid softener or the dryer sheets?

Gender in politics is not as important as it is their politics that matter and the power they have to change things for the better that truly matter. Sarah Palin is a woman and there is no way in hell I would ever want her to be president. I wasn't even certain I wanted Hilary Clinton either. I voted for Obama but I am not really pleased with the sales pitch of hope and change....bullshit. Sure he's smart and he is a slick talker.

Right now I am using a Laundry Detergent called Up&UP it is biodegradable/plant based. Sometimes I use fabric softener Downy and I use dryer sheets yeah, I hate static cling.

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What I do know of you, the little it is, it would be a loss if you didn't write sn autobio, both for you and for those of us who would read it. But it is a different process than other writing, have you read one you admire?

Well I am going to give it shot, like I said I started writing it. It is hard to write it so strait forward without it sounding a bit boring. I would not want to bore my reader. The structure and order of things is a challenge. Also, names and changing the names of people as well I am not sure how to deal with that problem. I'm just going to write and keep writing and we will see how it turns out. I will need an editor definitely. I have not read an autobiography in a long while the last one I read was by Marilyn Manson.

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How do you feel about Obama's Supreme court nominee?

Oh the politics don't get me all riled up now... I am not a big fan of American Government it's leaders or policies. That pretty much sums it up doesn't it. It's all bullshit.

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What do you think is the biggest misconception currently in the world of BDSM?

That it is all about pain, in my opinion it is about the power dynamics. The seduction of it is where the control is; to be seduced into accepting moreto be sexually open. It seems most people seem to think it is about the aspects of pain and humiliation. BDSM is ultimately about dominance and submission. There are many activities and things to do to a person to create stimuli. It is about how to initiate and create a session within a specific context.
The mind is our greatest sex organ. BDSM is about our fantasies being brought to life. To trust our play partners and to let go. There are the formalities and the ritual of the play. Not everyone is into pain I would say most people are not masochists and the word fetish is certainly misused so much of the time. BDSM is like great foreplay. The visual of it can come off as frighting or intimidating and I have talked to people they say I'm not into pain, you don't have to into pain. I would say it is about the psychology and it is the psychology that is misinterpreted.

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Do you ever do sessions w/ other Domms, as in double tops? Have you ever worked with or been in contact with Petra Saint?

I don't do a lot of double sessions I used to. I am not opposed to it.
I never worked with Petra Saint that is to say I have never co-topped with Petra Saint. I used to rent her dungeon space many years ago. I haven't really talked with her in a long long while. She retired and moved away it's been quite some time. She was an amazing Domina !!!!

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Goddess what do you think is the sexiest part of your body??

the eyes have it i think

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do you ever feel as if females are way too sensitive/easily offended? i'm about to give up on them!

yes, sometimes... the female to male equation yes it's complicated. wish there were no games involved and the communication could be open and honest but there is a problem with that also that each person may each be sensitive or offended. we are all fucked *laughing* i wouldn't give up on women you just need to work it out or find a different one.

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If you were to write a real life novel about yourself, what would be title of this novel?

I have decided to start working on writing an autobiography I'm not sure what I would title it right now I am thinking "CHAPTER 9"

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Do you prefer to be with the one man you really love or with the men who really loves you?

of course the feelings should be mutual. i would suppose i have not met him yet.

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Saturday, May 8, 2010

Friday, May 7, 2010

good for you Goddess, BDSM is not about the sex but about the mind and the domination

I agree....

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If you were granted one wish what would you wish for Goddess

That I could be with the one man I truly love

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Isn't there a danger of tipping over into sexual service though?

There a lot of gray areas when it comes to the biz...
if there is money exchange and arousal that is classified as prostitution. put a camera in the room and make porno have everyone provide two forms of ID and it's not illegal. There have been vice busts in some cities and girls charged with counts of prostitution for have unopened condoms in the space. Strap on play is risky but....Dommes have been doing strap on for years n years n years.
We try not to talk about it on the phone much for obvious reasons and no one wants to deal with vice cops or to get arrested that's no fun.

I would rather fuck my lover or lovers that is the bottom line.
I don't want to fuck just any slave that walks in my door and offers me money. Clients now see all these video's and these gals who are "Mistresses" who are fucking their "slaves" I hate to break the myth but really they are porn stars fucking porn stars it's a movie folks a movie it's not real. And, it damn fine entertainment.

The internet and the fetish porno industry has changed the client in a lot of respects. They have all these fantasies and they think to themselves they want to go see a Pro-Domme and they can do exactly a scene like what they see on Men in Pain or Divine Bitches this is not so.

Yeah, there is a danger I never said I wasn't tempted to want to have sex with a client here n there or have had a strong attraction for some guys I have had sessions with. Guys have offered me amazing amounts of money to fuck them more than what the porno company pays that is a fact and I have still turned it down. Oh well... I don't do brown showers either I have my limits too I wish people would respect them.

I've sucked cock on film that doesn't mean I'm gonna suck my clients cock. Business is business and video is a different business from the Pro-Domme live session industry. Always has been.

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Sorry to hear of the flaker, on that subject I have noticed a proliferation of "full service" dommes and from what I understand some actually are real dommes and have great skills, how do you feel about the "full service" dommes?

I have no issue with full service Dommes if they wish to provide full service that is their business.

However, I have never offered full service and since doing fetish porn with kink.com I get way more calls for full service but I don't engage in sex in live in person sessions. I have been stating this over and over again just to drive the point home I guess I need to keep repeating myself. I don't want to it puts my business at risk and well it's not legal. I liked doing the fetish porno but only with outstanding companies like kink.com

When it comes to the independent Pro-Domme Business I have I have a reputation and my integrity to maintain.

It was a standard rule for as long as I can remember the NO SEX rule.
I am sure there are those Mistresses who have done it anyway or broken the rule but....

Full service sessions well, I just don't want to "do it" it doesn't match my philosophy about BDSM at all.

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how many slave do you own??

I do not own any slaves at this time.

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OK, when you come to Chicago I'm going to sketch you, can't wait!! But nothing lame like a mask symbolizing a double life or a bottle of tequila symbolizing debauchery, just raw and beautiful simone kross. You said Chicago is on your list correct?

Yes, Chicago !!!!!!! definitely Chicago

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I love to sketch, black pencil and charcoal is my favorite, would you consider a session where I could sketch you naked? Purely for the artistic reasons, you know the artistic domme becoming art.

Yes, I would love that.

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Lately I Have noticed many people referring to someone as a "dear friend" or "one of my dearest friends", do you use this term? and if so at what point does someone go from friend to a dear dear friend?

Yes, I have used this term and I have "friends" and then there are friends who are much closer to me.
I have fake friends or people who say they are my friend but in reality probably not so much. It is rare I use this term unless it applies. For instance, I have know this gal since I was in my twenties we were "friends" room mates a long while ago, always kept in touch she has been there for me and never judged me. She has been a supportive and positive influence in my life. I feel I could call her at any hour on any day. She is vibrant and generous. I would say she is my "dear friend" I do not feel this way about a lot people. I have amazing friends and good friends and not so good friends and friends that if even I do not talk with them for long periods of time and then just call it is like there was never any distance between us.
Friends I hold closer to my chest or in my heart I would consider them dear friends.

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long time reader, love you and your show... yes you need to do a reality show I would love to follow you, it would be a smash! If someone approached on this would you do it?

I have been considering the idea yes and there has been some talk about it. I am not a big fan of most reality shows and I am not sure how it would go. It's possible....

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Is there anything that you have never done with a slave/sub that you still want too

I have been asked this question many times and I find that this is a question that is hard to for me to answer, This question and what is my favorite thing to do ?????? I have to say I cannot narrow it down to one thing not even two things. I love the play and I love all kinds of play I will repeat, ALL KINDS of PLAY. I am open to most everything I have my few limits but I like sexy, sultry, fun and imaginative sessions. I like the idea of keeping a slave overnight and having him in a captive situation a more extended session where I can get into things a little deeper. It is not what I have never done it is what I love to do to get into or given the opportunity to be able sink into all these different head spaces. This slave would have to be into bondage, captivation spanking corporal and servitude. Tease and Denial. It doesn't have to be super hard core but the idea that I have a slave for longer periods of time is cool.

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What is your Favorite outfit to wear??

Nekkid n shoes ....lol jeans and a t-shirt. I like fetish wear a lot but it can be really confining to play in most of the time. Rubber or Latex is great but depends on the weather. I love corsets, garters and stockings mostly and high heels.

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Hello, first time interrogator, long time reader, love you and your show, What are you doing this weekend?

My show....I need my own show hahaha.
I was supposed to do a session tonight but now I'm not so sure so if he flakes I am going to a play party tonight and tomorrow night I am hanging out with one of my dearest friends.

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Do you like Santa? Did you allways got the presents you asked for? I never did, I hate Santa, do you have a slave that look like Santa so we can tortured him together? while he is wearing Santa uniform, Just imagine forcing Santa to suck cock.

Santa izz kinda scary...all the kids cry when they get their pictures taken with him at the mall whaaa and no I didn't always get all the presents I asked for whaaaaa & I do happen to have a slave that looks like Santa up in the Bay Area hahaha. Santa sucks cock; coool *laughing* I get to dress up like one of Santa's sexy elves and do naughty things to him right ? I like the tights they wear and those short skirts not so sure about those shoes that curl tho.

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Thursday, May 6, 2010

What was the weirdest gift you ever received?

the weirdest gift uhmmm it would have to be the taxidermy deer ass mounted to a plaque. yep.

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I have used Extended stay hotel near the staduim but there are alot of good ones in San Diego goddess

I will consider coming down to SD

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Can I wear a shirt during our session that says "Underpants Monster?"

*laughing* YES U MUST !!!!

also ~ regarding my favorite thing to do as a DOMME is probably CBT it is hard to pick a favorite thing I like everything mostly but if I had to pick one activity it would be CBT.

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Do you ever come down to San Diego, and what is your Favorite thing to do as a Dom

I have never been a visiting Mistress is San Diego. It's not so far away that I could not drive down and visit for a few days though. Where is the best place to stay ? What Hotel ?

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Sarah Palin and Hillary Clinton both call you to set up a session, but you only have time for one, who do you choose to see and why?

Sarah Palin, because I really want to ball gag her and pull her hair and probably just humiliate her and do other bad, bad things including locking her up and throwing the key so that she does NOT have any chance to run or win the presidency cuz ya know she is gonna try for that arrrgh...

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If you had to choose only three toys for a session what would they be?

my eyes, my hands, and some rope.

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Are you still driving the jeep?

yes

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How were the pretty girls last night?

oh last night was fun...only one really pretty girl tho and she happens to be one of my best friends ever, Miss Cinnamon Britches. she did her burlesque show over at El CID it was awesome !!!! i will post video on FB gimme a moment or two.

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Do you think it's strange that when they execute someone by lethal injection they swab their arm with alcohol prior to starting the I.V. to avoid infection?

yeah...but it sounds like a smart ass mind fuck thing to do to a person right before they die. procedures, ya know...

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Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Happy Cinco de Mayo, just wondering what you are doing to celebrate today? Do you feel closer to this holiday now that you live in LA?

I absolutely love Mexican culture and the food...I haven't made any plans for today. I do feel closer to this holiday now that I am here yes and I have amazing memories of Día de los Muertos in Mexico City years ago and the processions in San Francisco. Last year I went to the street festival in SF. I should go out for margaritas later or something. mmmmm Margaritas !!!!

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You are going to Domcon LA, what do you usually get out of an event such as that? What is typically the highlight for you? Finding more clients, other dommes, good food?

Yes, I plan to attend. It is strange ya know I have always traveled in the convention circuit but I have not ever been to LA's DomCon. I am excited to go because I will be able to reconnect with friends and folks in LA and now that I live here it will be a good thing. I have never really gained more clients by going to a Con though and the food is terrible usually. It is the shopping, the workshops, the people and the parties. I like going to the conventions I used to go to BondCon is Vegas years ago and I have been attending FetCon in Florida for a number of years now and have been to a few events in London.

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Chicago!! Yes, any dates yet?

No, not yet. I am going to wait until after DomCon LA and then make some decisions about traveling or touring again. Texas seems to really want me to pay them a visit. I have never played pro or spent any time in Texas. Chicago was great last year and now that it is springtime it makes traveling so much easier. Cleveland was good to me and DC also.

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Yesterday you mentioned traveling, would you or are you considering Chicago? We'd love to have you.

Yes, Chicago is a priority.

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You have created a great play space in LA, do you rent it out to other dommes and if so which dommes rent from you?

The space is really cool; very modern but keep in mind it is not a commercial dungeon necessarily it is also my home. It is live work/space. I would rent to a few select Mistresses, sure. I have not really been renting to anyone. The space is ideal for video shoots and I would rent it out for that also. I would like to host intimate play parties and workshops here as well.

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Do you own and catsuits?

yes...i have a couple although i would like a more classic black latex catsuit i had one and it ripped apart. sux. i have a sequence jumpsuit and a red latex custom made cat suit that is pretty hot.

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would you consider doing more public performance work in your future and if so is there something that you would like to do?

yes, i would consider doing performance work. i am not sure what i would like to do though i am not a burlesque girl not really. i have done some performance work before for the SF Fetish Ball modeling/runway. I have done performances for private parties also. I would consider playing on stages at the clubs perhaps. I am still hoping to be able to do music performances also but that is an entirely different kind of thing from bdsm performance obviously.

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So if I see you on Friday night at the Passive arts play party I can approach you ask you if you feel like playing if you answered yes I can handle you an envelope with a session donation and ask you politely to spank me cane me torture me piss in mymouth

if i feel like playing then yes, and we can negotiate privately about activities regarding the play.

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Tuesday, May 4, 2010

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Will you do a public session at the play party in DomConLA? Do you like doing public sessions?

I do plan to attend....I am not certain if I will play or not. I am pretty spontaneous about that sort of thing if the opportunity arises and I feel like playing then yes, I would.

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What is your favorite breakfast food?

Eggs Benedict...actually breakfast is my favorite any time of day. I like french toast also. yum yum

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Have you ever had a dog damed Oscar anoint you?

damn dog pissed on my leg...hahaha that was funny.

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How tall are you barefoot and in your highest heels? And do you leverage your height to enhance the domination experience?

I am 5'5 in my barefeet and probaby 5'9 or so in heels and yes, high heels make me feel more powerful and more dominant i do like towering over the submissive.

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Have you ever gone on Chatroulette? If so what did you think? It might be fun to announce on twitter that you are going on chatroulette and then see how many people find you there.

No, i have not and probably would not..sounds kinda fun but I don't really like instant messaging or chats. Skype is cool with friends but to talk with people on Chatroulette would be strange I think. I've never tried it before.

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Monday, May 3, 2010

When are you gonna do a post a song post on facebook again? (That wasn't how it started but it kinda ended up that way. It was fun and I think you should make that kross tradition when you have time) Doll

oh i post songs and video's all the time. i haven't posted a video yet today. I did upload two new video's of me singin' some new songs so you can check em out as well. I will keep on posting the music on facebook for sure.

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Do you believe in the lone gunmen explanation, or do you think Lee Harvey Oswald had help?

More conspiracies...I do not believe in the lone gunman theory no.

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You forget everyone that brings your moving crew a plate of sandwiches and puts drinks in your fridge ? Is that humiliation or domestic service I got for free ? ;)

Depends on how you look at it I guess haha...you offered and I have nothing but appreciation and gratitude for all the people that help me out. I have not forgotten.

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What size shoe do you wear?

8.5 or 9 depends on the shoe

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What you doing for lunch ? ;)

Lunch...mmmmm I am just getting to work and it's lunch time. I was going to make something here at the home office. A sammich I guess...who's askin' ?

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A few years ago, your website linked to some vignettes you had written. I can’t locate them anymore but they were stunning. Have you written more? Would you ever consider publishing them?

I have not been writing in that style for some time now. I am sure I have some samples of the previous text saved. I had not really considered publishing any of it. I felt it was stream of consciousness there is no real structure to the writing at all. It was kind of an autobiographical fiction of sorts. I have a lot of writing that is unfinished and unpublished. I wasn't really certain it was something that could be considered for a book. I'm not sure it would or does make sense to people. I have been writing more lyrical stuff these days. Songs...I suppose I could get back into the erotica. The thing is though I do not only come from a position of Dominance in the previous work I also utilize a female submissive voice based on my personal experiences. I'm not sure but this can be confusing for some if they have one idea about me and that idea is that I am only a "Dominatrix" and that's it that's all. I am an artist as well. I don't like that I feel I have to fit into one category. It seems you like the writing, I am flattered.

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Do you have the single tail skills to do a permanent mark on a slaves back? And does it turn you on to do it? Can you get an ass virgin slave with a tight hole into fisting in his first session and if not how long does it takes?

Permanent marks are more significant and in my opinion should have deep meaning. I have the single tail skills to draw blood and can leave marks and have but to leave a more lasting mark or impression I would want it to really truly mean something to the submissive. I have left a lasting impression on some slaves. This whole subject of whether or not certain activities turn me on why do I feel as if I am always having to convince people that this is "real" for me. Yes, it is a turn on and yes I get off on it or I wouldn't bother to engage in these activities. Also, in regards to marks I only leave marks on those submissives who request marks and I don't just lay into someone.

To answer the second question, a first timer who is a as you say a virgin slave will not be able to accept an entire fist. You have to do anal training to be able to get into fisting usually and since each persons body is different the time it takes to train varies; stretching and dilating are important. So no I would not do this in a first session or with a first timer. You gotta work up to this sort of play and be in the right head space for it as well.

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To what music genres do you listen? Can you give me some names?

i previously answered a question that pertained to the music genres i listen to and who my influences are. if you scroll through you will find the answer to this question. i listen to a lot of different kinds of music. i prefer to listen to the blues mostly; older stuff...and was turned on to a lot of blues by my musician friends. i learn a lot from listening.

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Sunday, May 2, 2010

Hello, in your twitter background photo it looks like you are tightening up a humbler on a sub, what were you thinking at that exact moment? To me your expression is that of the mundane, you could easily be turning on the stove or the coffee maker.

I don't remember what I was thinking at that exact moment. But I can tell you playing it wasn't mundane. I was playing with Kade and I really love to play with Kade. I am usually really focused on the play so perhaps my facial expressions are more serious or cold. I don't know... I am really into the play always have been. It is not a mundane thing for me. I am in the moment I have a lot to think about in those moments actually like how it turns me on and what am I going to do next to get a reaction from the submissive.
Kade is a joy to play with and I feel I have real chemistry with him.

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can you tell when someone is lying to you ?

I would like to say most of the time, yes. However I have been deceived and lied to and come to find out later. Usually, I can kind of tell but not always, no.

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Professionally has there ever been another pro that has really disappointed you?

Yes, but I am sure I have disappointed others also. I don't think it is good to get into back biting bitchy shit it is not healthy or productive. I have had my feelings hurt by other Pro's but it isn't like I haven't learned something from them.

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How has Veronica Hoffman's passing affected you?

Veronica's death....well I have nothing but sympathy and compassion for those who were closest to her. Veronica always told me how much she looked up to me. Her death made me sad of course. I suppose her passing gives me a new perspective on life. I have a lot of different emotions around this. I was not as close to her as others were and I wanted to be there for my friends. It was stressful and it was awful and painful. I have to just believe that she is in a better place now a more peaceful place.

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